Sync Moods.Feel Closer.
In The Mood is the private app for couples to improve their relationship through better timing, clearer signals, and deeper understanding. Stay emotionally close — without pressure or awkward conversations.
Available on iOS only.
Three steps to better connection
Our app makes syncing with your partner effortless, private, and fun.
1. Pair with Your Partner
A private, secure connection for just the two of you to express how you feel.
2. Set Your Mood
Choose between Intimacy, Affection, or Not in the Mood. Say more with less.
3. Match & Connect
Only match when you both feel the same. No guesswork, no rejection, just better timing.
The "Heart Signal": Thinking of You
Sometimes you do not need to set a mood. You just want to let your partner know they are on your mind. Send a Heart Signal with one tap, a gentle, pressure-free ping that can brighten their day.
Upgrade to In The Mood+ to send a Heart Signal every hour.
Choose your situation
Start with the relationship pattern that feels closest to what you are navigating right now.
We are in different places
Find lighter ways to share a mood when time zones and distance change the usual signals.
Explore long-distance guidanceOur days are full
Make room for a simple check-in when parenting, work, and low energy leave little space.
Explore guidance for busy parentsOur desire is out of sync
Separate timing, affection, and boundaries from the pressure of having to guess.
Explore guidance for mismatched libidoGreat For Couples Who...
Strengthening emotional bonds through better communication.
Have Busy Schedules
Perfect for partners balancing careers, kids, and daily life who want to stay synced.
Want Better Expression
A gentle way to signal your needs without the pressure of a formal conversation.
Value Relationship Health
Dedicated to keeping the emotional spark alive through consistent, private check-ins.
Moods for every
Connection.
Intimacy
Ready for a close, romantic connection.
Affection
Looking for warmth, cuddles, or comfort.
Not in the Mood
Taking time for yourself and your own needs.
Designed for your peace of mind
Your moods are never broadcast. They stay private until you both sync, ensuring that your signals are only seen by the one person who matters most. A simple, secure, and private way to stay in touch with your partner’s needs.
Unlock Deeper Connection
One subscription, shared love. Free users can set moods for up to 6 hours. Upgrade to In The Mood+ to extend your mood duration up to 12 hours, send a Heart Signal every hour, and access sync tracking.A single Plus membership covers both you and your partner, so you can celebrate and visualize your shared moments together.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know about syncing moods and strengthening your bond.
Is our data private and secure?
Absolutely. Your moods are never broadcasted; they are only visible to your paired partner when you both sync.
What is a Heart Signal?
It is a simple way to show your partner you are thinking of them without setting a specific mood. It is a no-pressure notification. While everyone can send them, In The Mood+ subscribers can send one Heart Signal every hour to maximize their connection.
How does the mood syncing work?
It’s simple: you select your current mood (Intimacy, Affection, or Not in the Mood). If your partner selects a compatible mood within the sync window, you both get notified. If not, no signals are sent, removing the fear of rejection.
What is In The Mood+?
In The Mood+ is our premium subscription. Free users can set moods for up to 6 hours, while In The Mood+ extends mood duration up to 12 hours, provides detailed history tracking to spot relationship patterns, and a single membership covers both you and your partner.
Is In The Mood available on Android?
In The Mood is currently available exclusively on iOS.
Do we both need to have the app installed?
Yes, for the syncing to work, both partners need to download the app and pair their accounts using a unique secure invite code provided within the app.
What if I change my mind after setting a mood?
You can update or cancel your mood status at any time. If a sync hasn't occurred yet, your partner will never know you had a mood set. You are always in control of your signals.
